Everyone is Different from the others for a Reason

In my childhood, after seeing my sad face, my mother used to say, “God has given equal abilities to everyone, we should never feel lesser than anyone.” Then, I used to believe that and smile back to my mother.

But now, I think that the Almighty has made all of us different from others so that we can make our own identity different from others and the difference comes from lots of stuff. So that we don’t look like a copy or replica of others. Usually, we don’t get this and try to do blindly what others are doing without knowing ourselves properly.

Everybody begins his/her life in different surroundings.  A person gets his/her qualities from the surroundings where he/she spends his her time.

An Example of how Rohan and his life can be different from others

Let’s have a look at this scenario. There is a boy named Rohan. Both of his parents are working. Everybody knows the amount of responsibilities parents  have on their shoulders as both of their parents work. In that case, it’s very difficult to look after your children. It’s just more difficult than others if both of them are office goers. Because of the profession,  when he had taken birth, she had to depend on her mother for a longer period of time, and also they (Rohan’s parents) had lesser time for Rohan when he started going to school. So, they had his admission in coaching center for his studies after school. He has a group of friends in his school and would make some friends in his coaching center. Now, his future personality depends on the friends with whom he hangs out. Since he doesn’t spend much time with his parents, therefore, he will be more influenced by his friends than his parents. According to the influence his good qualities, bad qualities, interests, ambitions and life goals would grow.

Now the question is whether Rohan’s parents would support his interests, goals, etc or not. In my point of view, his parents should support him in having a go at his interests, passion, and goals if he is not doing anything wrong. They should understand his feelings and the reasons for his feelings.

So, this was one example of how Rohan is different from his parents and others due to his surroundings and the influence from them (his surroundings). 

Conclusion
Like the above scenario, there may be different people with different scenarios, the process will be the same but the results may vary.

That’s why I say that everyone is not the same, everyone is different from others and we all have different abilities, qualities for specific interests. The difference comes from different surroundings, upbringing, etc.  We should use our own good qualities to do as many good to us and others as much we can.

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