Writing Stuff of Abhisek Nayak

If you have a remote in your hand, then you have the right to change the TV channels as quick as possible, but if you have the remote in your hand to change someone’s life either in a positive way or the other way, then you should do the same very cautiously and with great concern, because as a whole, they may seem like a bunch of small parts of your life but each of them has his/her own life. They may or may not know what’s good or bad for them. You should guide the ones who don’t know what’s good for them, make them realize what bad they are doing by giving them examples of other people and try to surround them with positive thoughts.

Things were very different before IPL (Indian Premiere League). Before IPL, as a school kid, I used to play carroms, do my holiday homework or watch movies and other stuff on T.V. on my summer vacation.  But, all of these things changed when the Indian Premier League came into existence , my playing, studying & other stuff did not collide with the IPL match timings. Before IPL , I had in my mind that football is for counties or club format (e.g. English Premier League, La Liga, etc.) and cricket is for International matches, but, IPL changed my perception about it and I am sure it also changed the thinking of the people all over the world. Before IPL, there was the mighty Australian Cricket team which won almost every match, they played. But things did not remain the same after IPL. Now, there is no one team which dominates the international cricket matches like they (Australia) did. At this time, you would see ICC ODI rankings keep changing and there is always mor...

Your life is like a clock, you are like one of the number lines marked on the clock, and the hour hand, minute hand & the second hand are the opportunities you get in your life. If you stick to your basics and hang in there like the number line, then the opportunities will come to you again and again like the hour hand, minute hand & the second hand. Most of us feel bad and lose hope when we miss an opportunity, then we stop trying, but this does not make any good to us rather it makes things complicated. So, we should take inspiration from the clock as I mentioned above, never lose hope, wait for the next opportunities, and keep trying for what you want.

Nowadays, many people or I should say almost every person in the world is getting bounded by the clouds of “Stress”. First of all, what is stress? Stress is anything which forces you very hard to go against the direction in which you want to opt. Now, stress has become a part of our life. It has become like ‘common-cold’, it can catch everyone, at any moment, at any time. People from every category, such as students, office going people, actors/actresses, sportspersons, etc. It would be very wrong if it would not be considered as a serious issue. Now, it is time that it(stress) should be looked into very seriously because chances are very high that its(stress) results are very horrifying and would continue to be so if not checked seriously. It can force a person to do horrible things which include such stuff that can make him/her incapable of seeing the next dawn. Let us see how stress affects the lives of people all around us. A student always wants to get better marks, ...

When you plan for a work then the work becomes easier. Suppose you have a project to complete in your workplace, you are the team leader and you have not planned for it, but you have decided to start the project from a particular date and end it on another date. You have also told the team members to start the project from the same day and nothing else. Then, in this case, nobody actually knows where to start, what part to do and what not to. In this scenario, the chances of making mistakes are more, and the project may exceed the target date. Now, let us assume that you have planned for the project. Then, you know that which person has to work on which part of the project. Now, every team member knows how to divide his/her time to complete his/her part of work and the chances of committing mistakes are less. We should also apply this thing in our life. Suppose you want to pursue something or you are going to do something prior in your life then you should plan it seriousl...

Spirit of competition is good but not if you are in the same team. Suppose you are part of a team working for a project and you are looking to perform better than a team member or all the other team members. Now, this thing will make you notice the flaws of the other team members but overlook yours, and without knowing your flaws, you can’t perform better. It will fetch more pressure to you. It may also harm your relationship with the other team members and the performance of the team. So, rather than competing with others, it would be better to compete with yourself because it will make you correct your mistakes, improve your performance and last but not the least, it would benefit your team. 

Usually, we follow what successful people do , but, it is more important to follow what they(successful people) have done to become successful. This will help us to grow and improve in our respective fields and as humans. This thing will help us when we would be struggling to do something. It will increase our confidence to achieve what we want to and most importantly, it would help us when we would be going through a bad phase of our life.

When you have a work in hand, always start from the basics. Complete the basic, smaller and easier parts of the work, first. If you do so, then you feel fresher, positive and confident to do the rest  of the work. Practically, you can examine that  the people who work out the basic, easier and smaller parts initially, complete the work more successfully than the ones who do not do the same. So, start from the basics and start easy.

Try not to react immediately to someone’s problem, because, sometimes, it may be dangerous. First of all, in this situation, you have to understand the problem, he/she is having. To do so, you have to think through his/her point of view. “Thinking through one’s point of view” means that you have to imagine what should you have done if you would have gone through the same situation, and whether it would have been right or wrong. After doing so, you can give the right reaction or advice to the person.

The things or data we want to have on the computer, we save it to the computer. Likewise, if you want to see something good in any person who may be a kid or a guy , then you should put the good things inside his brain or we can say, "Save " the good things to the person, like you save stuff in the computer. And if you want to make a person free from a bad habit, then you should delete the bad habit from the  living computer,  that is, the human. From this, I mean to say that make that person not think about negative stuff. If a person is very bad in nature and does not want to try for the good things which would make him/her a better person, then you should try to "delete" the negativeness from him/her and "save" positiveness to the person. In other words, make his brain memory, full with positive stuff. I am saying all these things because  Humans are  like living computers .

When you have in mind, a work to pursue, then, you should always see the positives of the work, because, its negatives may scare you and prevent you from pursuing the work and being successful. For example, if you are going for an interview or audition, then you should think about the things to be done for getting selected, rather than thinking of the things for which you may get rejected as the latter can scare you and lessen your confidence.

Divide your task into smaller tasks. It will make your work easier. If you would think of doing your work at one go, without any break, then you may feel tired or stressed. You should take one step at a time. For example, suppose you have a task to complete in 3 hours. Then, you can divide your work into two halves. You can complete the first half of the work in 1 hour and 15 minutes, then, you can have a 30-minutes break and complete the remaining part of the work in the next 1 hour and 15 minutes. Likewise, you can divide your task into smaller tasks according to your comfort and make your work easier.

Nowadays , lots of debating and group discussion competitions are taking place for students and they are being also used in the campus placements.  Let’s talk about this debate and group discussion competitions. First of all,  let’s talk about the debate competition. In a debate competition, first of all, a topic is given to the participants then some participants are chosen to say in for the given topic and some are chosen to say against the topic. The first disadvantage of this competition is a participant has to say, according to the choice given to them (for or against the topic) irrespective of their own choice. So, they will have to speak according to the given choice and it may be against their will. And if the topic and the given choice is not according to the participant’s choice, then the participant in the zeal of winning the competition gives very non-related reasons(to the topic) starts arguing about false things and try to show those false things as true. A...

People choose the path of evil when no one shows them the good path or restrict them from setting their feet on the good path. So, don’t restrict anyone from doing any work which doesn’t make someone hurt,  try to show the right path(good path) to the people around you and restrict them from following the evil path.

Are sports, dance and other co-curricular activities given equal importance as education in a student’s life, these days? Some people will say “yes nowadays, sports and other non-educational activities are given equal priorities with education by saying that now there are many sporting institutions, many sporting clubs, dance institutes, drawing classes.”, but are they enough? But does everybody get the pleasure of these things with education ? The answer is a big NO. Let’s discuss the reasons  for this thing. Some kids don’t get the proper backing for those extra activities from their parents as their parents tell them to have more concentration on education and state the extra activities as non-necessary and less important to their kids. And there are also kids who are not able to practice these extra stuffs due to financial problems of their parents, in this case the parents could not do much after spending so much on their kids’ studies, and then comes the case of the kid...

Do the things you love to do, people who don’t like what you do or criticize you, will get bored of the things they like today and they would like your things someday. But don’t do any bad or negative things which may make you or any other person fall in trouble.