Always See The Positives In The Work, You Want To Pursue

When you have in mind, a work to pursue, then, you should always see the positives of the work, because, its negatives may scare you and prevent you from pursuing the work and being successful.

For example, if you are going for an interview or audition, then you should think about the things to be done for getting selected, rather than thinking of the things for which you may get rejected as the latter can scare you and lessen your confidence.

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