Having A Remote Control To Someone's Life

If you have a remote in your hand, then you have the right to change the TV channels as quick as possible, but if you have the remote in your hand to change someone’s life either in a positive way or the other way, then you should do the same very cautiously and with great concern,

because as a whole, they may seem like a bunch of small parts of your life but each of them has his/her own life. They may or may not know what’s good or bad for them. You should guide the ones who don’t know what’s good for them, make them realize what bad they are doing by giving them examples of other people and try to surround them with positive thoughts.

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