The Reality of Generation gap in India

The phenomenon in which one generation is not able to cope up with another generation is known as a generation gap.

The generation gap is continuing from long years ago. First of all, let’s talk about the time when the care of our parents was taken by their parents. At that time, they (our parents) had to do whatever they had been told to, and if they would not have been done that, then it would have been seen as a crime, especially if you are a girl.

Mostly the victims of this generation gap were girls. They were not allowed to go outside their homes much; they were not allowed to talk to a boy. They were not allowed to wear some particular types of clothes. And after their marriage, they (girls) were told to whatever your in-laws say may be good or bad, you have to follow them.

That time there was no case of giving acceptance to what type of jobs they want to do. But in today’s life children have to struggle to say what they actually want to do in life.

In today’s time, most parents want to push their children to the jobs or profession where there is a process or almost security to achieve the security. For example, if a parent is pushing his child to engineering, then he /she has study and earn good marks in four years according to which he/she will get a job, and n the job if he/she works well, he/she will get promotion, but if the child wants to become a cricketer, a parent thinks that there are many who are dreaming of becoming a cricketer, he or she may not be able to be a cricketer but the parents doesn't think about the fact that they can’t force a person to do something which doesn't make them(children) happy, if a person is happy with what he/she is doing then the work gets easier and is completed but if a person is made to do a work from which he/she is not happy then the work turns into a cage for the person and makes harm to the person from inside or we can say mentally.

So, to avoid this generation gap, the parents should allow their children to explore things, teach them to be a good person before become anything, and then let their children decide what they want to become or what they want to do.

Another example of the generation gap is when parents want to tell their children to not to do something then they tell it like ordering them to not to do that thing. But they should not do like that ,they (parents) should think first that what they would have done if they were in the situation in which their children are, what they would have done if they would have been in their children’s age, then after deciding through these factors they should talk to the children.

And in another case if the parents want to advise something to their children, then it should not be like you (parents) would go and tell your advice thing to your children and come back, the parents should give the advice by making an environment such that the children have interest in listening to the advice. Likewise, the parents who complain that their children don’t share anything with them should create such an environment. Parents should not pressurize the children they (parents) should behave with them (children) in such a way that the children will share stuff from their side.

Now let’s talk about the stuff of the children related to the generation gap. Children who complain about that their parents don't give them this phone, this bike etc. ,first of all, they should think that who are giving them food to eat, clothes to wear and a place to live. The children should also think about the mentality of the parents who do a lot of hard work for them (children) . The children should keep in mind that we can achieve everything in life if we work properly and if they (children) are asking their parents for something then they should, first of all, know through which situation their parents are going through, and if they (children) are asking their parents for something they should first ensure that they (parents) are in a good mood.

So, I think this is the reality of generation gap in India according to me.



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