Anything that matters is What and How You want Something to Get

Vikash: Oh! You are late today.

Naveen: Last night, we had a success party in our office and the boss has also given us a holiday today.

Vikash: Success Party! Great! It seems your boss has netted a big fish.

Naveen: Yeah, and we have also got some of the big fish.

Vikash: Congrats on that. Now, I have to bath and leave for office or I will be late.

Vikash says to himself, “Naveen is having a great ride in his life. It always feels great when you get something unexpected on that day from nowhere(he is mentioning about the success party and holiday here)”

Neighbors in a City

Naveen and Vikash are neighbors to each other in a city. They are not the best of friends but usually meet during festive occasions in the society, wave to each other while going to their respective offices & have a conversation like the one above.

Vikash was very good in His Studies

Vikash in his childhood was a boy whom Indian relatives and neighbors call “A Good Boy”. He has always obeyed his parents and others. He was very good in his studies. He did engineering and also scored good marks there and was placed in a very good and popular company.

Naveen is slightly a Different One

Whereas, Naveen is slightly a different one. It’s not like that he respected his elders less than Vikash did but the difference was his academic performance. He was an average student in his studying days but he was always interested in understanding things using practical ways. He was not good at memorizing stuff and all. He had not got placed in any company but after his college, he had started doing small and temporary jobs & his own project. Through his experience and abilities in his previous works, he got a better job. He is very popular in his company and handles their very important projects.

Vikash needs to be Positive

Now, it has been three years since Vikash has got his job through placements. He was very happy there but now he is having hard ways there. He is now feeling like not moving ahead in his career. It’s because he had not faced this situation in his life before. Earlier he used to have easy solutions to his problems, study and ask for help from the people around him. But, this is the time when usually you don’t find anyone who could help you. This time, he feels that everyone is in competition with him. In my opinion, he needs to think about his life goal, take suggestions from the others and which one (suggestion) to follow and which one to not. He needs to be positive and take failures as steps towards his goals (as he has not failed in the things which he had done before).

At last, I would like to say that it’s not about who you are or how you were, the only thing that matters is that what you want to get and how you want to get.